For when i cant find it, here is the best instructions i found for removing

1. Go to /usr/local/lib and delete any node and node_modules
2. Go to /usr/local/include and delete any node and node_modules directory
3. If you installed with brew install node, then run brew uninstall node in your terminal
4. Check your Home directory for any “local” or “lib” or “include” folders, and delete any “node” or “node_modules” from there
5. Go to /usr/local/bin and delete any node executable

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